Minimizing, marginalizing, and helping others make excuses for abusive behavior of any kind is no different from condoning that behavior and allowing it to continue. Then it comes to abuse, one plus one is not two. One isolated, unrepeated incident of reactive anger can be explained, forgiven, and effectively prevented going forward. But one plus one, that makes a pattern. And my son taught me something he learned in second grade.. a pattern . . . is something that repeats itself.
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